HEY  FRIENDS .....

This  Page, first  of  Welwisher series, focus  on  Happy Marriage. I  will  share my views, and offer suggestions on how to: "Achieve happy marriage  through  Couple-Intimacy."

Marriage  is  a socially  accepted  relationship for  a couple;  who wish  to live  together, for whole  of  their Life. This is Inductive  and Conducive for growth in; Personal, Economic, and Carrier front of  both  partners. It also helps in  development of  family as a Unit.

For marriage to flourish; Good Carrier growth, Economic Soundness, Mutual Understanding,  and  Emotional  Parity  among  partner is essential.  

Of all human relationships;  Marriage is most intimate one.  A Happy and Content Marriage can  be  achieved  by--Couple Intimacy.   Key   to  couple intimacy  or Intimacy  is,  Honesty  and  Dedication  to each  other. "Intimacy  and  Affinity" among  a  couple   go  together ;  One compliments  Other.  To strengthen Affinity couples should know; "Unknown aspects" of their relationship, as well, "Necessities and quests" of their partner.  Men  and  women  are  created  different ; Physically,  Emotionally and  Intellectually.  Intimacy  is--to   Accept , Share,  and  Enjoy  the  Difference; so as to become "One-entity."

Couple  Intimacy  is  Sustained, and  Enhanced  by  maintaining-- "Individual-charm."

Woman, in general, remain absorbed in family responsibilities, and neglect  "Personal care and  grooming". She  must  keep  physically fit,  and have  happy  mental  stature. Only a healthy and cheerful  house - wife,  can create Cohesive  home - atmosphere.  Woman  must  retain  her  Charm,  and should remain  Adorable to her husband. There  have  been numerous cases ; wherein,  woman  has neglected Personal care for family duties, and her marriage itself, has come  under Threat.

For man : "Work  schedules  and  targets"  take  their  toll  on  him.  This  coupled  with stretched  working, result in  "Tension."   This , in-turn , is  responsible  for many  disorders ;  such as--Hypertension,  Obesity,  etc.  Man should  remain  Fit-N-Fine, by regularly taking to physical activities like--Jogging,  Walking, Yoga,  Aerobics etc.  He  should bear  Positive thinking and  mindset.  Keeping  a  hobby  for  leisure,  shall  further help  to ease  tension. Thus, man  must retain his Charm, and remain as-- Herman. One should  understand  that : "Money  can  buy  gadgets; not  health  and happiness."

Like  any other  relationship;  marriage  can  also  be  Strained  some  time,  and  may come at  Break-Up.  Do not Give-up  hope.  To overcome such desperate  situation ;  keep  patience and  take  Initiative . Talk to your partner. First, tell  her  Positive  points, and  ask  about  Negative points, she does  not  like  in you.  Note these   Points   quietly, do   not   counter argue.   Assure  your partner that  you  will  do,  all  is  required,  to  overcome  them. Ask  her  to  give  you  one  fair  chance, to start-a-fresh,  this  relationship.  There  stands  a  good   possibility   that  your partner will react to this Positively , and  you  can then  work   to  overcome, the  Crisis. You may now be  able  to  save  the  Marriage.  It  is interesting  to  know  that  most  common  causes  for Break-Up  are; Dishonesty  to  partner,  and  Too -much intrusion in Personal life."

I  trust, suggestions  given  here  shall  bring  Positive  changes  in your   Married life.   Friends....Shall  meet again  on some other topic, touching our lives.

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